there are obstacles

However, Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces as to the thing that some people say, there are obstacles.
Certainly, people's motive is different. Athletes explain the motive too, some people are relatively strong, others are relatively weak. It must be the advantage that the motive is strong, it is good to the athletes having it, it is uncertain to be beneficial to to having. Such as lifter, distance runner before the match motive strong and a bit fine, anxious to gain victory. The shooter's motive should be relative a bit weaker, the heart cuts very much to strive for victory, can not accomplish the psychology calmly, thus influence full play.
So, for common people, it is only a characteristic that the motive is strong and not strong.
You are a girl with stronger motive, if open up in order to tackle key problems, it must be the advantage. But if do the financial affairs, it might not be suitable to worry very much.
The girl with strong motive generally will not be very dull in life. Have psychological obstacle when she took action, but when the psychological obstacle appear, can overcome this kind of obstacle.
A lot of girls are not very strong when growing the sexual motivation, the psychological obstacle is a bit more terrible, shown as the passive type.
So, study the taking the initiative type passive type and study the action strength of the motive and contrast of the psychological obstacle.
Every motive is strong, relatively less person of the psychological obstacle, more voluntarily, have offensiveness.
The motive is not very strong, the person that the psychological obstacle is heavier, the general personality is more passive.
Certainly, perhaps too one has very strong motive, the psychological obstacle is very strong too, such a person, often the heart conflict is strong.
And those motives are weaker, the person that the psychological obstacle is weaker, the heart conflict is generally duller, the behavior is weaker too.
Is it helpful whether you are for such analysis to know? In a word, have understood the one's own one is special, put its pros and cons in order, it is known how to use it, it is believed that you will be happier.
Mr. Ke
The marriage " The truth "
Cause the emotion " Hit a submerged reef " Newly-married couple
It is not long ago it receive I one pieces of letters of young man,it last he emotion perplex. Young people came back home to get married with the girl friend loving each other for many years one year ago. But because the visa is difficult, the wife can only stay in our country temporarily, he gets back to the study of continuing of U.S.A. alone.
Like a lot of stories that we saw, the sexual behavior outside the wedding has taken place because of being lonely to the little wife staying behind to take care of things.
After the permanent heart conflict, the wife has chosen honestly. They discussing, producing this having a long talk all night, at one network, the honest course is quite painful. Husband to learn truth if five thunder rumble, carry for the moment, lose heart. He wonders how to do, if he does not love the wife, thing is easy to handle, broken instantly. If he can forgive the wife's fault, the thing is easy to handle, the wife has already repented, live it just carefully later. But young people love wife deeply, do not want, lose family is and unable to accept the fact taking place already. Later, it was the same that he fished for the straw to clutch at too, attempted to relieve the impact that is received with a lot of modern theories and statements, it can not taken away in the stone at heart but stop up.
In this case, he writes a letter and seeks help, hopes to find the method to free.
How write back, make I fee hesitate quite, reason he for life not merely understand, and say a lot in the letter. Moreover such injury could not be comforted by a few words.
To tell the truth, it was the wife's honesty that I especially brought my attention in whole thing, the wife's method is nowadays " The fashion " China is actually rare. On condition that foresee the consequence may be quite serious, she still chooses to tell the other side the truth, she says: " it is unfair to cheat to you " ," I prefer losing your love, lose the marriage, do not regret " . This lets me respect. Usually the story which I understand is, the party overstepping the limit will conceal the extramarital affair as much as possible, when couple meet, let all that once happened buried in oblivion by time.
Young people tell me, someone made this idea for the wife too before this, but she considered repeatedly, it is unwilling to do it in this way. Here, I am unwilling to say she is simple, and want even more to say she is brave. She examined oneself and overstepped the limit, just because of the care of the third party, and oneself was too weak at that time. However, she is sober soon, it is known that that is not love, just a kind of aspiration of tender feeling. After the thing, she treasures the mutual love even more instead, and resolve with the other side completely.
The wife still says while telling truth, even if therefore all one's life is condemned by the husband, bearing the cross of the conscience forever, she is perfectly willing too, because she wants to be responsible for one's own wrong behavior. I think a girl can make sure very difficult like this, she must be this struggle.
About love and marriage, discuss a lot in the society, but say it is a human permanent topic. No doubt, love is a essential condition of the marriage, there is no marriage of love that is unfortunate. But only there is love that is far from enough. I think, two people pass by all one's life hand in hand, besides the love, should understand and forgive, should have responsibility and obligation.
When he decides to marry her, not only love he (she) Strong point,love he (she) Beauty,it last understanding he (she) Weakness,contain he (she) Weakness,not merely share he (she) Success that may be made in the future, and plan to bear he (she) Fault bring twists even suffering. Usually to the fault of the other side, if direct against the third party among couple, still relatively easy to accept, but if direct against one's own one, will often become intolerant.
I thought, in people in love's when, any honeyed words, non- painstaking deception of a solemn pledge of love, it is that the life and death was interdependent that it was subjective at that time. But the passion is called the passion, even very great passion, can only exist " transiently " as to endless life Twinkling of an eye,help each other when both are in humble circumstances only softheartedly most truths of family.
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