I still tell this young man

I tell Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces this young man, this only lies in for you whether you still highly value this emotion, whether would like to believe in wife's love to you. Certainly, even accepted this, will not not be painful. But how great agony will be relieved after some time, time is the best placebo.
Meanwhile, I still tell this young man, if you really love the wife very much, and would like to continue keeping this marriage, then, exclude this from future life as much as possible, try hard to think few, lack and speak of with the wife too. Because each talk will tear the wound again, all to causing the injury each other.
Wish this can highly value love of setback to young people, thus obtain real happiness.

We do not understand the marriage first love hour
Letter to girl failed in love
A girl who went out of the door of institution of higher education just now, was hearing in the radio in " soul Taiji " of radio accidentally ,Shaken very much, then surfed the Net and found my blog, has " cherished the mood that expects very much " Write a letter and seek help.
It is failed in love that the girl has talked once that oneself has just gone through. Knew a boy upon somebody's introduction several months ago, began to set one's heart not well, but has got used to the boy's pursuit gradually, will usually care about and associate each other while longing for people. Even being on business, boy know every day telephone is available, " feel very happy " .
Having passed for several months like this, the boy goes to the other places again in once, the attitude begins to become cold after coming back. After the several conflict, girl propose saying good-bye voluntarily under being excited, the boy has accepted, but at the same time, hope the girl can " subdue that latent once love with wide mind " .
On one week not beginning, girl cry every day, used to, answer the call life which someone care every day already, it is very difficult to jump out from that kind of state. She say until " the gloom at heart can gasp for breath " oneself ,Do not know whether confidence begins the new emotion.
Read from the letter, this should be a girl's first love. We watch a lot of bright first love among literature, two young people brave and in love in everything of abandoning common customs. However, with the experience in my life, the marriage that first love causes is few in actual life. This is because of young season, the young boys and girls of first love are often swallowed up by the passion, and have no time to take the others into account. Marriages are different, two people will pass by all one's life together, must face various very real consideration rationally. Such as the personalities of both sides, culture background, so that family life after marriage,etc..
So, there is such a maxim, it is not enough that only there is love in the marriage.
I told this girl, she is young yet, if regarded as the setback this time (actually I would think that can not be counted as any setback at all) ,Hope she can receive the benefit gained from others' wisdom from it, grows up, regard this experience as one's own spiritual wealth. In the future, she must have new contacts, there is a new boyfriend, at that time, she will know how to get along with the opposite sex even more, will understand and treasure each other even more, know even more too that respects the other side.
Read from the girl's letter, the boyfriend is very kindhearted, have not injured her, has just thought two people are together and improper. I tell her this is very normal, no need to sigh over the behaving abjectly to the rich and powerful and coldly towards the poor of the ways of the world with feeling. As the party of the love, and freedom that both sides all have the right to choose. The boy is growing up too. The girl says, the boyfriend has seen some friends when being on business to other places, the emotion has been changed after coming back. I tell her, thing is if really like this, several friends say something in one's ear, will make him make a decision to say good-bye to you, prove at least, your emotion is quite fragile.
In life, some lovers get along for time to think that coincide each other long, the deeper the emotion is; Some are quite different, with the deepening understanding, will feel the other side and one's own distance in such aspects as personality, interesting, culture background. That resulted in not conforming to must be the other side's shortcoming, the difference that probably just each characteristic causes. Such as the introverted person, just just like accompanying with the hot and positive opposite sex sometimes, think it is a kind of complementation. But some people like being quiet, the other side is too lively will feel uncomfortable voluntarily. So, the choice to the opposite sex does not have certain law and reason can follow, totally see what is valued even more each other, how prefer. Having helped to combine compatibly sometimes, the complementation produced because of being inconsistent sometimes lets both sides feel happy again.
I hope the girl thinks so, fortunately two people have not really got togather yet. If is because is young, do not because can not consider thoroughly and get married hurriedly, just find that does not coincide each other after marriage, it will be the real agony at that time.
Emotion most reluctantly can't, improper to separate, must not pester each other. Pester, can injure the other side injure oneself only. So, the practice of real self-respect is, if possible, would turn the love to the other side into warm friends gradually, respect the sincere friendship that had once had each other, when meeting difficulty, expecting has such a friend to offer help.
It is often in people knock against describe emotions of men and women young for " One glass of water disturbances " ,Will often enlarge the blow that the emotion received for the moment to say the young party, have enlarged one's own setback sense. Perhaps pass a little more annually, as he (she) Have happy marriage really and at the family, recall blow this moment " overwhelmed with sorrow feeling " ,Will think at that time " Very innocent" .
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